She's not online anymore? How do I make her come online more often? I need alot of answers!?

I've been talking to this girl from online for like a month.


And she's not one of those fakers, don't worry haha.





Well, she hasn't been online for a few weeks now, she said she's busy, but I don't think it's like she is busy for three weeks straight. We were always cool about each other, and we both have crush on each other as well.





I asked her if we can meet online at centain times, she said she'll try but she never made it.


How do I make her come online more often? I don't want to force her or anything.





Any answers will be great.


Thank you.

She's not online anymore? How do I make her come online more often? I need alot of answers!?
online relationships dont work . sorry
Reply:This is why you shouldn't become obsessed with online girls. Maybe she's been busy for 3 weeks maybe she hasn't. When I talked on aim a lot more I knew plenty of girls that would be on aim for hours every day then disappear from aim for weeks on end. Maybe they got a job; a bf; another hobby. Find and hang out with girls closer to you or go and hang out with her. You'll find its a much more fulfilling experience.
Reply:lol.. people go online, just have fun with other people.. dont take too seriouly...lol


I talked to some people online too.. some of them I dont like it.. I just ignore them....lol
Reply:work, school, new people in her life probably affect it. also family... try to get a real relationship
Reply:She might have gotten cold feet or found someone offline...





I know I got cold feet about someone I found online...





We girls are like that...we get scared ...we don't even know why...
Reply:thats not so great to meet someone online you dont even know, you should go on a date with someone you like that you atleast know.


you can be protected that way, and its more safer and funner than having to go through with all these problems.


you cant make someone do something its unless they do it theirselves


try callin her if you have her number or meet someone else.


you dont know if she likes you because you two met online and you dont know her real feelings, and people can really lie when they are online. you never know what they are thinkin over a computer
Reply:look up "David De'Angelo" his written books and articles will definately guide you trust me!!Any qeustions let me know...google his name
Reply:u can call her..duh...and maybe she just has thing to doo
Reply:Most certainly she may think ur a stalker..


I mean tahts how most girls feel when ppl ask to meet personally when uve only talked online......
Reply:How in the world do you think you can control how often she comes online?


Here's the thing - if she's avoiding you online, it's because she doesn't want to chat with you anymore. Period. Find some other online girl to talk to - this one is done with you.
Reply:Well, it kinda depends in this kind of situation. Since this is about online communication, or lack thereof, I think things can easily be misconstrued. But there are other factors that need to be considered. Do you guys talk on the phone? Do you guys see each other in person? Did you meet online? How are you sure that you two have a crush on each other? Specifying your situation will better help your question get answered. A quick update of your question and details and I'll see what I can do!!
Reply:Is this what you're looking for? I used to have online relationships. I had one with a boy named Riptide. I liked him. Then I found out he was cheating on me for a girl named Taylor. I was sad. So I got with a boy called Adam. I don't like him anymore. He never talks to me. That pisses me off. So I don't talk to Adam. Now, I don't have a boyfriend. That sucks. I'm online talking to a boy named Dannie. I don't think I want to go with him. He's OK. Yeah. I like him as a friend. He's a cool friend. For real. Yeah. He is. He is nice. I like him. As a friend, that is. Yeah. You know? It's one of them online friendships. That's good. OK.
Reply:A lot is two words... but anyways... get a real g/f
Reply:if she's in school, she very well could be busy...it's the end of the semester and everything is getting crazy. maybe you should ask her though. Tell her that you really enjoy talking to her, and understand that she's busy, but would love to talk to her. Maybe she'll have a solution. She might even give you her number! or ask her if she has a myspace/facebook. You can leave each other messages whenever you have free time instead of meeting for instant messaging.
Reply:Other people have lives....
Reply:Lol same thing man I met this girl online apparently she went to a private school so i never met her... but i met her for the first time at her job today and didn't say a thing...
Reply:Just stop trying to contact her. If she is interested she'll wonder why you've stopped messaging and ask. Give it a few weeks if you hear nothing move on.
Reply:okay.


first,


you cant MAKE someone do something.


its mostly thier choice.


and also..


is this one of those online crush things?


cause if it is than you might as well move on.


she has a life too!!


and there's really no kind of way to make her get online.


everyone has thier own personal life.


she would probably rather go have fun with her friends


than sitting on there computer talking to you for hours and hours and hours and than complain how bored she is.


just MOVE ON!!!
Reply:First, u can't MAKE her go online. Second, if u really like her just tell her that she hurting ur feelings (if it does). Just tell her how it feels and if she really cares about u, she'll try explain unless its really personal.
Reply:First of all, you can't MAKE anyone be online, second of all, it sounds like a cyber like/love. Just be patient and wait. E-mail if you have the address.
Reply:she's prolly married