Online Relationships?

Hello I meet a girl online I love so much we talked for like 3 months now..I talked to her for hours and hours.. and I love her so much and she loves me so back so much too... she lives in USA and i'm in UK so we can't meet easy she wants to come to mine or I go to USA next summer but that mean I have to wait 9 months


before i even meet her... it sucks so bad that i can't be with her when we both want each other so badly...I did'nt think it would happen for sometime i'm 18 and i realy do beleive she is the one... i never meet anyone like her we bond so well.. it's almost like were made to suit each other she said that she wants to be with me forever i'm scared that when we meet it might go wrong or something i know it's different online it's all words and can be different in real life .. i never thought i would meet my Girls online... is many people meet online like this ?? i was'nt looking for love it just happened

Online Relationships?
How can you say your in love with someone you've never met before? Chatting is...not love.
Reply:hmm.................i'll believe it when i see it???
Reply:hi , i met my boyfriend online , unlike you he only lives 300 miles away , we spoke for months then met up , we decided to meet up as we had to see if the feelings we had were real . They were! Mind you it is really hard , the distance thing , not being able to have a hug when u want one , you will know when u meet her if ur feelings r real , and if they are then do something about the distance .... good luck
Reply:Good luck buddy
Reply:it depends on the individual some people like to be on line, me personally couldn't have an on line relationship as i need the physical contact but if it works for you both go for it x
Reply:You're in for a BIG disappointment. Online means that she belongs to a fantasy world for one thing is sure... she is NOT what you imagine ! You cannot love someone you never met face to face. By all means go visit her but go prepared to find someone who is not what you were hoping for. You are fascinated about her... NOT IN LOVE !!
Reply:my cuz chats to girls all the time and he says anything to get a pic, hes a dog. but thats the point, he gets all kinds of attention and they all think that their the only one he s talking too. ya never know who your dealing with til u can either see a web cam or meet them in person. they ve had people to meet and marry from being online but its a chance u take.
Reply:If u really love this girl and u feel she is the one, go for it! I am in the same situation, I have met a guy that is perfect and i love him to death, and we met 4 months ago, but we started being together 3months ago, and we talk everyday, we call eachother everyday, we meet online 3 times a day, and i will meet him in person in Feb of next yr if god willing, and I don't care what anyone tells me, because i love him and he loves me, and i live in the US and he lives in Egypt! Go for it! If ur heart tells u she's the one, then follow ur heart! Don't let anyone tell u otherwise or make u doubt ur feelings!
Reply:I guess a lot of people meet on line. Just keep talking and getting to know her. If you can, write to each other as well or call each other, too. The more you stay in contact, the better off you'll be. I hope she has been very honest with you and things work out. Just be careful. Don't be too naive (and I mean that in a nice way). I'm saying that because she could be using you and hopefully she isn't. I'm glad you're going to meet and I hope it's everything you're expecting it to be. Good luck to you.
Reply:hiya please for gods sake take it slowly and be very careful. i have done a similar thing only for it turn out bad, so plz take my advice and make sure she is who she says she is, because travelling to the usa is a very long way only to find out that she isnt what you thought or that you arent really compatable in reality. i know chatting on the net is fun but it is mainly all an illusion, honestly please be careful, and take things slowly, your so young and have plenty of time to find the 1,
Reply:whatever it is i think its too late coz u said so urself that u love her...there's nothing left to say except for all the best to u dear, hope it works out for u
Reply:Seems all is going good for you, but you never know people untill you have normal contact. You sound a bit young, so take things one step at a time, even if you are not so young. You can,t tell a book by looking at the cover.
Reply:ask for a photo, she might look like a car crash. Dont waste any electricity or time till you've checked !





Sin ugly aint what you want to poke afterall.
Reply:dont rush into anything, its easy to say you get on over the net and everything in common but this might not be the case in real life, ur only 18 get off the comp talking to this girl and try find one in a bar that you can be with properly if thats what u want but dont fly to the other side off the world its not a fairytale, ive had experiences like this and in reality they nothing like what they were on the net. but the end of the day only u can decide.





best of luck
Reply:Is 9 months a long time to wait for someone that you love? If you and your girlfriend don't have a web cam set upon your computer, you may want to think of getting one. That may help close the miles between the two of you when your apart. Seeing each other while you're talking might also relieve that fear of things going wrong. I've seen long distant relationships work, and if you two truly love each other it will work for you. Good luck.
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Reply:Online chemistry is very different to real life chemistry. Ok you've seen her photo and you think you love her..but the fact remains you cannot (well in my opinion anyway) truly love someone until you've met them in person. Photos can be very misleading for a start, I once chatted to someone online and had his photo where he looked pretty good, but when we met up he looked nothing like his photo and I wasn't attracted to him at all. I liked him and he wrote great emails and we got on brilliently, but there was no chemistry when we met in reality. I knew straight away there would be nothing between us. I'm not saying this is definitely what will happen to you, but just keep your expectatations open. You don't know how things will work out in person until you meet, it might be completely different to what you're used to when chatting online. Just because someone writes good emails and sends a nice loooking photo doesn't mean they will be fantastic in person. Just be careful.